In his book, Until Unity, Francis Chan discusses this topic of separation. Comparing what we grieve versus what the scriptures grieve. What separates us as a people and then as followers. This book is not a feel good book.  It's a call you out book.  It's a "challenge you to do better" book.  In fact, I've had to take reading it in strides as I've tried to reflect on his points and accept his challenges.  With that said though, I've really enjoyed this book and wanted to share this particular quote that has stuck with me and to share my thoughts that I worked through one day after sitting with this quote.